Fantasia Barrino’s Family Drama

Fantasia Barrino and Antwaun Cook had a baby boy about 3 months ago, but it seems like the still married man has had a change of heart. spoke to a family insider who told them that Antwaun Cook ‘regrets giving up on Paula and their two children.’

They also describe a night out that the former couple spent together in North Carolina while Fantasia and their three-month-old baby son Dallas, were nowhere to be seen.

‘Paula and Antwaun both ended up at Club RE:Public in Charlotte over the weekend and things got a little cozy between the two,’ the source said. ‘I don’t know where Fantasia was, but she definitely wasn’t in the club where they were!’ The source went on to say: ‘Antwaun was shoving his tongue down her throat and she kept having to push him away without trying to make a scene,’ the source explained. ‘He told Paula that she belongs to him because she’s still his wife!’

Fantasia and Antwaun first began dating while he was still married to Paula in early 2010. The former American Idol star took an overdose after she was accused of breaking the couple and their family up.

Paula even took the case to court, trying to prove that Fantasia actively tried to destroy her marriage but the judge ruled in Barrino’s favour and agreed that the relationships didn’t overlap.

‘What Fantasia doesn’t know is that through all of this, Paula hasn’t changed the locks on the house she once shared with Antwaun,’ the source told Radar. ‘And Antwaun still has keys, so you can put two and two together.’ ‘Antwaun has lost interest in Fantasia,’ the insider said. ‘He was even egging people on to take pictures of him and Paula together…he didn’t care who knew.’ SOURCE

May I interject my thoughts on this…

First off, what makes Fantasia or any other woman think that an adulterous relationship will really work. The relationship is built on deception, lies, delusion and manipulation. If the man does leave his wife for the mistress, what makes her think that he won’t do the same thing to her. What I fail to have an understanding for is why we as women will just settle for anything.

Fantasia should’ve known that the chances of this relationship working were slim to none. If you believe in God like I do, his word says that you shall reap what you sow and your reaping comes back double-fold. It blows my mind of the high level of deseperateness that my peers  will let any ole foolishness fly. I would like for my sisters to learn to have a high self-esteem, have some self-worth and respect for yourselves. Men will always be around and there is no sense of denying your fabulousness for a man.

In my opinion, the wife shouldn’t want to get back with the husband this late in the game. It’s been almost 2 years, he’s publicly embarrassed her and has had a child outside of the marriage. He is a fraud, fake, imposter…she can most certainly do bad all by herself.

I would like for us as women to get to the point were a man is not a necessity but a compliment to our lives. That we can still be a girlfriend/wife without losing who we are or without compromising our values.

Ladies, you are fearfully and wonderfully made and I ask that you not to let your singleness define you. Make your mark on this world whether you have a special someone or not.


Posted on March 8, 2012, in Entertainment, Life, Relationships and tagged , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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